Thursday, July 16, 2015


reunion
noun~ (ree-yoon-yuhn)
*a gathering of relatives or friends at regular intervals
after separation.


last weekend was my family reunion.
my aunt jane and uncle paul (ie) hosted it at their lake place
near glenwood mn.

it's always a good day when i get  to see my family~ all these faces that
i love, sincere hugs that feel so good,
and food that is second to none.

this is the 36th year our family has had a reunion and for a while
last saturday i sat in the sun and reminisced with some cousins
about some of the good old days when our reunion was
3 days of chaotic fun. the peeps in charge would need trailers
to cart everything to carlos state park near alexandria and
we'd all spend hours hauling our bedding and fans, suitcases and
food, auction items and kids toys to their designated buildings.

and the food... oh the food!
there was almost always family favorites such as chicken and noodles,
fried mush, scalloped potatoes, peanut balls, or porcupine balls if someone
happened to kill a porcupine on their way.
kidding.

there were 4 building to sleep in and a huge mess hall.
the nicest sleeping quarters had two bathrooms in it. 
if you weren't in that building you had to stumble through the dark
of night to get to a communal bathhouse.
early on it was decided that if you were one of the oldest or
a family with babies, you got automatic entry to the
house with the 2 baths.

lars and i debated stopping at 2 kids till the reality hit us
that having one more guaranteed us a few more good years in the
premo lodging.
kidding. 
(but it was a plus~~ thanks cole)
: )

for years someone messed with aunt jean's carefully laid out
comforts, resetting her alarm clock to ring during the night, 
moving her prune juice, sneaking old curlers in her suitcase...taking her 
rug....but she never said a word. she just nonchalantly acted like
her peace had not been messed with.

then there was the annual "suitcase switch".
two people every year would go back to their room only to find their
own suitcase GONE and in it's place would be an old suitcase
filled with ridiculous old clothing and accessories...curlers with a bunch of nasty hair in them... cowboy boots, leather shorts and negligees etc... the only way
to get your own belongings back was to put together at least one
stylish outfit and come out for photos.

we have memories of men lost on the lake all night, babies locked in 
hot bedrooms, pigs being roasted on open fires, a cousin waking up
 half in the lake in a sleeping bag after a night of fun, bridal showers and 
baby showers in the mess hall, lake itch and mosquito bites and sweat, 
talent shows and auctions to raise the funds for the next years gathering, and most of all~ hours and hours of
laughter and sharing stories that strengthened the bond between us.


*********************

my darling g.nephew barrett, (18 months going on 4) was at the reunion on sat.
he'd changed so much since i'd seen him.
little dude is never still, the whole world is his oyster.





aunts and cousins




 barrett's mom and pop


aunt jane (in front), our hostess did a fine job of keeping things going.
she had activities planned and she didn't like it if you weren't willing
to play human frisbee.
i wore a dress~ on purpose~ and opted out.
: )





i like pepper as much as the next guy- but straight outta the jug, really?




oh fine, just write on the tablecloth then.



daisy has been coming to our reunion for 16 years.
she doesn't see or hear well anymore but she's still got
enough teeth to eat and a lap she loves to sit on, so life is still very good.



my brother todd and cousin jer stood-glad for each others company-
while we sang happy birthday to them.


my mom's sisters, dar & mom's twin dora- on the right. (and cousin brenda)


my sweet niece, ashley ann elizabeth



cousin jason riled up about something.



my aunties!!!! each of these 6 women hold a special place in my heart.


grandma mary with barrett



isie. she and i share a birthday and she's my gr. niece, cutie pattootie.
 cousin sue's behind her.




my sister dawn, isie and my girl with her new hubbie chris. he was meeting
most of the family for the first time.
(took it like a champ. he's easy to talk to).



and here's the gang that started this big family.
in order by age: uncle tom, uncle jay, (then it was my mother),
aunt dora, aunt darlene, uncle stan and uncle paul.

seriously love these guys. 
these 7 baldwin siblings had 22 children all together!
the first 8 grandchildren were born in 4 years and it was 
seven girls and one boy, mike.
needless to say mike was the M.C. for a lot of 
miss america pageants.
he had burt parks down let me tell you.
"here she comes, miss america...."

we missed getting a photo of all the cousins that were there- but
oh well, next time.
thanks paul and jane for hosting our reunion.
it was a great day!


xo, beth

Friday, July 10, 2015

part 3 of the wedding~



here at long last is the final post about 
our daughter's wedding.

thanks for your patience if you've been waiting and wondering
what's taken so long.
i have been extra busy since the wedding (& that even
included another wedding, a destination wedding that i was the photographer for).
: )

again, this is long and "rich" with  pictures
but i'm excited to share the rest of the day.




the first of the 3 wedding posts showed the wedding party getting
all dolled up and faaaaancy for the day, so we'll pick it up from there.
here's my girl taking a last look at her hair and makeup
before she slipped into her dress.







i loved her dress when she choose it and ordered it, but then
you don't see it again for several months.
when i saw it on her wedding day
i thought it was even more beautiful than i remembered~







she bought a new bracelet and earrings, but her pearl necklace
was a gift from c.









this is jessica. she has been a friend of adria's since they were about 13.
she was in the wedding and when she came down the hall and saw A. in her dress she just lost it.
then i lost it.

*then we found it again~ and carried on...
good grief we didn't want to ruin our fabulous makeup!





here are some more of the beautiful detail shots taken by annie & jessica,
our fab photog team for the day.

the bride's shoes



bridal bouquet



bet you figured this one out...





i think this is the first picture of her with her flowers.

each of the six girls chose their own dress. i love how they all looked together,
and i love this shot annie took of them on the deck of the bunkhouse~






so, it was time for the photos of the two of them and
they were about to see each other for the first time...





















ohhhhhhhhh~







the photographers and c. and a. then went to the horse stables and 
a nearby church to get some fun shots.
*had to throw in one picture of "miss sass"
i think the sun was hurting her eyes, but this makes me laugh~







~love this freckle faced boy. i love him for loving my daughter with his whole heart.
they are just so good together and as her papa said during his speech,
they have a  "quiet contentment" with each other that we all see.
when it's so right, it's just the best feeling in the world.



















the pic above and below are some of my absolute faves~





back at the horse and hunt club the photos with the whole group started.










c. has two brothers (on left) and two new bro-in-laws.




these precious little boys made us laugh all weekend long.


our family












my girl. my beloved girl. a bride!



the grooms family



this is one of the bridesmaids bouquets i designed.




my talented friend cheri helped with the flowers-
she designed the aisle bouquets.





fast forward to the ceremony now-all the attendants were up front and the little 
ring bearers were the last up before the bride~



the groom~


here comes the bride...
















they surprised us all with a tree planting ceremony







the dip & the first kiss as husband and wife!!!
(i wonder if a groom has ever dropped his wife?)










now it was time to dine, relax and celebrate!


our decorating revolved around a hunting theme. we used a whole lot of
antlers that were ours and loaned from family, i dyed cheeseclothes to drape on
tables, and we had old boxes and birch bark, candles and flowers all over the place.






i made these bricks with what the kids kept calling their
wedding:
best day ever


grama dar and cheri arranged the flowers on this
antique chicken feeder that was then hung from the pergola~





i made two of these wreaths with fresh smilex and roses to hang 
behind the head table.







lars made the holders for place cards out of birch logs.



jess shared her rad handwriting skills on all the chalkboards~



the birch tree cake was made by buttercream and
it might have been the best cake i've ever eaten.


simple flowers on the cake



c and a had custom playing cards made for table favors~













speeches


laughter and tears~




sharing cake



friends~







why not whoop it up?




dancing...




friend and photographer annie was probably exhausted by this 
time, so she hammed it up with the host and hostess,
mark and cin.


this little honey's momma was a bridesmaid so he got to party with us in his jammies.



i think i nearly killed the wedding coodinater, my friend cheri...but instead of
crying, she just gets gooooofy!

cheri and cindy...(sorry you had to leave early mary- you should have been in the shot)



i'm pretty sure someone just told henry that he was going home.
whaaaaat?
well. that. just. stinks.



these guests were a bunch of funsters on the dance floor....
loved their energy!




the bride and groom beaming from ear to ear...





and with that, this mother of the bride is ready to move on with her day, 
this post literally took me most of today.

it's been on my mind to get it done since the wedding though,
so i am excited to be showing and telling you about
the rest of their magical day and
now we can all move on.

: D



*when i asked my girl recently how married life was,
she summed it up with one word:

perfect.


xo, beth

p.s. no longer a mother of the bride, now i'm a mother in law.
i'm going to try my best to be a good one.

p.s.s. if you think this was long, you should try choosing from over
2000 photos you love..... hee hee

p.s.s.s. photo credits mostly belong to annie marie photography. : )